I have men in my life. Not boys, not guys, not dudes, and not just friends. I have MEN in my life. The kind of men that our grandfathers were. The kind of men that The Duke, Jimmy Stewart and … Continue reading →
I learned that women are more approachable than I thought. I learned that when women are being approached or are approaching, that they are much more self conscious and vulnerable than we are. I guess that’s since we’re used to it, or that’s just the way it’s been stereotypically done.
I was really surprised that the guys were in consensus, that in a relationship they wanted the man to "be the man" and the woman to "be the woman." This was a huge surprise to me. ... My BIG revelation, I have to say that I'm SO PROUD OF, is the thing that "going on dates is like trying on jeans." Like who gives a shit if it doesn't work out? Like, I make all these big stories about it and it has all this meaning like whether I'm a successful person or if I'll ever find love? That's a revelation for me. Thanks for getting me there!